NEW YORK (Reuters Life!) – Nearly four out of five women and three of five men say they believe texting, Facebook and other social networking tools cause new couples to jump into bed faster, a survey released on Monday showed.

But only 38 percent of women say they have actually slept with a date any sooner because of digital intimacy, according to the 1,200 women and men who participated in the third annual sex survey by Shape and Men’s Fitness magazines.

Smart phones and laptops are the new toys that lead to the bedroom, it said, with nearly 80 percent of women and 58 percent of men saying social media tools leads to sex faster. Continue reading »

Now I know that there are plenty of women that hate to even “Spit on the Mic” but do it just to please their man. On the flip side there are plenty of women that love it. Of course motives may not be completely innocent though.   I mean come on. To literally have a man by the balls gives us women a sense of empowerment. Look at Superhead for example, she has built an empire on well… giving head.  But to Swallow?  Umm should you or shouldn’t you?  If you do, how do you know when to do it and who to do it to?  Do you just swallow anyone’s nut? However, I don’t think enough men communicate what they really want at least not to their Main squeeze or Wifey. Mistresses, Jumpoffs, Sidechics –whatever- have more than likely been privy to this information.  If after reading this you began to ponder on the idea of adding some extra protein to your diet here are some incentives to swallowing… Continue reading »

How Many is too many?

by J.Starr

I love this topic because, well my job is to write about what people don’t openly talk about. I have stated before that sometimes it is best to lie about the number of sexual partners that you have had in order to salvage another’s ego, and /or your own reputation. I stand by that statement, however, I have a few amendments to my own rule.

As discussed previuosly there are several reasons to lie; now lets talk about the reasons to tell the truth:

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This is the true story of Erica and Joey two successful professional African Americans living in Washington, DC

*Erica ( 26) dated * Joey (29) for about 2 months before they even had sex. (An accomplishment for both of them).  They went out to dinner, the movies, spent weekends together, and spoke about everything, well almost everything.  Finally after 8 long weeks, on her birthday, she decided the time was right and decided to consummate their dating. Continue reading »

If you want to hear a woman tell a lie, ask her how many men she’s had sex with.

Fellas- let’s make this real simple for you, we all lie about how many men we have slept with.

You’ll probably never know the real number of sexual partners your woman has had.  You want the truth, but face it, you can’t handle the truth! We know this, therefore when asked the dreaded “How many?” We know to lie, lie & lie some more. Continue reading »

In Issue 35 our super hot summer edition, we interviewed a porn star named Pinky who is known for her pink hair and phat ass. Midway through the interview she mentioned that she’d rather be fat with an ass than skinny with no ass.  Funny I thought, because unfortunately a lot of us are forced to choose between the two.  So I began to dig deeper into the issue. Started asking around to my friends …

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This was a conversation I had with a co-worker yesterday; after describing a lunch date that I had gone on.The story actually started Monday when while perusing the streets of midtown a stranger stopped me to say hello, and ask me out to lunch. We exchanged business cards and polite glances and kept it moving, later in the day he sent me an email specifying when and where we wanted to meet for lunch the next afternoon.  The following day I received a follow up/ confirmation email as well as an option of two destinations. Option 1 was a moderately priced bistro, and Option 2 was a well known kind of expensive steak house. I choose option 2 of course – If he was bullshitting me than I was down to call his bluff. Steak & Lobster it is- see you at 1! Continue reading »

No wonder so many women are complaining men disrespect them. We disrespect ourselves.  A study has finally concluded what men have known for centuries; single women would rather go after men who are already in a relationship then single men. Apparently we get a kick out of stealing men from each other. Continue reading »

Ladies if your man stays up in the strip club claiming he only goes for the music…You can tell his lying ass to just change his radio dial and stay his ass at home.

A radio station in Denver recently underwent a format change to become 101.5 The Pole, devoted to “classic nonstop stripper hits” from the ’80s and beyond. Though it may just be a temporary stunt while the station transitions to an actual new format, The Pole is indeed spinning strip-centric hits until further notice.

You’re hanging out with your buddies and one of them throws out a sexual slang term that everyone else in the room seems to know the meaning of — except you. Naturally, you laugh along, not wanting to appear ignorant or, even worse, sexually inexperienced. You can’t ask your best guy friend what the term really means and you don’t want to ask your girlfriend either (chances are she wouldn’t know anyway; it’s usually guys that come up with these things). So where do you turn? To the internet, of course, and to AM’s list of sex terms you don’t dare ask about. Continue reading »