They just want to FUCK you…
This was a conversation I had with a co-worker yesterday; after describing a lunch date that I had gone on. The story actually started Monday when while perusing the streets of midtown a stranger stopped me to say hello, and ask me out to lunch. We exchanged business cards and polite glances and kept it moving, later in the day he sent me an email specifying when and where we wanted to meet for lunch the next afternoon. The following day I received a follow up/ confirmation email as well as an option of two destinations. Option 1 was a moderately priced bistro, and Option 2 was a well known kind of expensive steak house. I choose option 2 of course – If he was bullshitting me than I was down to call his bluff. Steak & Lobster it is…see you at 1!
As I passed the aforementioned co-worker on my way out to my date he asked where I was going, want to grab a pizza he asked I’m on my way out. No, I’m good I replied, and actually I have plans I’m headed to Uncle Jacks. “Oh with your boo” he asked, no boo, I replied some dude I met yesterday on out in the park. “Some dude’? Yeah but It’s not a date. We’re just going to grab lunch; it’s a NON date I joked, just a friendly meeting to mutually indulge in good food. LOL. Whatever J…enjoy your non date. Thanks I will, he seems like a cool dude.
Lunch went pretty well, no clear and present agenda’s no mention of “hooking up” or anything extra. I was really impressed. This was a complete gentleman. He used his utensils properly, washed his hands before grabbing the bread on the table, and insisted on pulling chairs, opening doors, and walking on the outside of the sidewalk. Great, I thought. I just might have met a new lunch buddy. Nothing beats great food and conversation. On “cloud nine” and in an obvious good mood, I headed back to the office where I again ran into my coworker. “How was your date?” It wasn’t a date, I replied, “Oh my bad your non date.” It was great! He was a perfect gentleman, and the food was fabulous. I think I found a new friend. “Friend? Please! They just wanna fuck you!”
Um excuse me, that is not true, this one was different, he didn’t mention anything sexual, he didn’t …nah it wasn’t like that trust me. He just wants to get to know me that’s all. “YOU gotta be kidding me. You seriously believe that this dude saw you outside on the street, stopped you and approached you only to take YOU to lunch and get to know you? Nope. That’s not how it works. He just wants to fuck you.”
Part of me wanted to believe he was just being a hater, but somewhere in the back of my mind what my co-worker said resonated in my thoughts for the next few hours. Maybe he was right. Maybe lunch, dinner, drinks are all preludes to some modern day mating ritual. Maybe all he wanted to do was Fuck me. Well there was only one way to find out.
Over the next few days I pondered how I would get my answer once and for all. I decided to just come straight out and ask him face to face on our next non-date. Nah, that won’t work I thought. So I figured I’d wait for the tell tale signs. First he’d ask me out to dinner or drinks and not lunch. Second he’d try to get me drunk, and third he’d suggest leaving the restaurant ….to go somewhere.
Fast forward and everything that I thought would go down went down. Dinner drinks, and “why don’t I take you home?” AHA!! I thought. I cracked the case! So I looked at him as he was parked in front of my house and as boldly as I could I said “YOU just want to FUCK me right?”
The look of straight up aggravation in his eyes caught me off guard. “WHAT”? He said. “Wanna fuck you? If that’s all I wanted to do I would have just said so hours ago.”
“Oh so you don’t wanna FUCK me?” I asked -now confused.
The answer was yes, but no. Yes he did, but not that moment. Not while I was drunk, and not before he knew about me, spent some time with me, and decided I wasn’t a random hoochie.
I learned that night that not everybody wants you so fast that you don’t remember that good men will want to get to know you, that a good woman will ask, and that no not everybody just wants to FUCK …
14 Responses to “They just want to FUCK you…”
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again i feel your style cute story mama. i hope you are still with this man he sounds like a catch.
yo if u good money niggaz treat u like it if u bad money then u already know what twist u on and pretty much what twist he on so when you fish some time they bite and some times they dont……… u already know
yeah right, i bet he fucked you since this published. lol what the hell is this ?person pana even talking about.
It always surprises me how women can’t recognize game sometimes. Of course he wants to fuck u. The only difference between good and bad men is what they do after they’ve fucked you.
As a man I will tell all women that 99.5% of the time when a man approach a woman he is already lusting the woman. Physical attraction between woman and man always end up with sexual desire. So me myself think that most men want sex but those may not be the only intentions.
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I liked this. what happened next though? did they ever hook up? need more posts dont’ just leave us hanging. this whole site needs more updates. yall are falling off don diva but was feeling this was funny. i think most guys want to fuck j starr based off how she sounds. no homo.